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Jeff Belanger, Part One
Jeff
Belanger’s first book,
The World’s
Most Haunted Places, covers history, folklore, and true ghost
encounters. It’s a world tour of historic haunted locations and
includes interviews with scores of witnesses. In 2005, Belanger will
publish two more books covering supernatural topics with New Page
Books.
Jeff has been studying and writing about the
supernatural for regional and national publications since
1997. In 1999, he launched
Ghostvillage.com
with a mission to provide ghost research, evidence, and
discussion to ghost enthusiasts from around the world.
Today, the site is the Web's largest and most comprehensive
supernatural community, receiving more than three million
hits per month with more than 10,000 email subscribers. The
site includes a vast library of personal ghost encounters
submitted from around the world, in-depth articles on the
paranormal, book reviews, message boards, and other
resources dedicated to the study and discussion of ghosts. |
Melanie: Jeff, you’ve said that ghost hunting is a sort of spiritual
experience for people. Can you elaborate? Is the pursuit of paranormal
experiences a spiritual experience for you?
Jeff: I was raised Catholic. I went through Sunday school all the way to
confirmation. When I was in high school I pretty much stopped going to church
completely. When I was in college I actually became a staunch adversary of all
religions because I viewed religions as man-made, flawed by nature, and
sometimes dangerous. While I still believe that to some extent, I've certainly
softened my stand on it. I still believe all religions have a lot of it wrong,
but I also believe all religions have some of it right. If someone gets peace,
understanding, or comfort from their religion, then that can't be a bad thing.
Tamara: I feel the same way. While religion has never appealed to me, I
think it's as valid for someone who does follow a faith's tenets as my lack of
belief is for me. I was listening to a psychiatrist talking about patients who
believe they've been possessed and the harm he believes their doctors do if they
turn to exorcism when other methods fail to help them. The critical psychiatrist
posits that science doesn't believe in possession, therefore it's wrong to play
into someone's delusion. I think he's merely showing that science is as dogmatic
as any other religion and the truth is that whatever provides relief for the
patient is the best option.
Melanie: I find it to be that way for me personally also. For me, it's a
sort of personal quest for answers. Being raised Southern Baptist, I was taught
that you don't question certain things, you merely accept them. Blind faith and
all that. But I questioned things--was the earth really created in 7 days? Did
Cain and Abel marry their sisters? How is it physically possible to cram two of
every single species of animal on earth into one boat? You know, the usual
logic-defying conundrums of the Bible. But when I asked these questions, the
answer I got was "Because the Bible says so," which told me absolutely nothing.
While I’m not an atheist, I have realized I needed to go in search of some of my
own answers elsewhere.
Tamara: In the diety-worship department I've always been an atheist. In
popular parlance, however, most people would call me an agnostic because the
usual belief is that if you’re an atheist, you cannot have a spiritual side.
Which is why I like to confound people with the term, Zen atheist. The Tao
concept works best for me, but that’s certainly not true for everyone. I think
that whatever works is what matters, not how it works.

Jeff: In college I came pretty close to becoming an atheist. I had
thought/reasoned away all of the arguments supporting my own religious
upbringing, but I couldn't quite explain it all away. My own personal conclusion
is that there are still miracles. The fact that we even exist is one of them,
and I believe that is the work of a divine creator. That's as far as I've
gotten. What team that divine creator supports, be it Muslim, Christian, Hindu,
Buddhist, Wiccan, or the Red Sox, I have no idea. After college, when I began
writing for newspapers and magazines, I loved chasing the local ghost stories
around Halloween. I got to speak with people who obviously had a profound
experience. I found it very similar to when a person finds a religion and has
unshakable faith from that point forward. But I think there is a huge difference
between finding religion and experiencing a ghost or spirit.
Tamara: Absolutely
Jeff: In finding a religion, you're expected to have the profound
feeling, plus buy into all of the dogmas, contradictions, and all of the other
baggage that goes with that belief system. That belief system then gives you its
idea of what (if any) afterlife awaits. When someone experiences what they
believe to be a ghost or spirit, the witness now has proof of an afterlife.
There's nothing to buy into or affiliate with -- it's simply a profound
experience in and of itself. That simplicity is what attracts me to the ghost
experience. On the one hand, there's nothing more to it beyond the encounter, on
the other hand, the implications are huge and beg us to explore our own
mortality and spirituality deeper.
Tamara: Hear, hear! It's uncharted (or at least less dogma-inflicted)
territory. It gives me great joy, as compared to dogma, which gives me great
pain. It's a mystery, a never-ending one. Perhaps that's the appeal for many of
us.
Melanie: I definitely think that’s part of the appeal for me. Organized
religions won’t touch the realm of the paranormal at all, aside from their own
version of it. My own experiences have given me evidence that possibly we do go
on existing after this life, although I'm still searching for more because I've
never gotten the one definitive piece of evidence that would convince me 100%.
I'm perhaps 95% convinced at this point. Is it that same sort of quest for you,
Jeff?
Jeff: For me, studying the supernatural is a scientific and
research-based quest that can't exist without some ideas on spirituality. I'm
not saying there are definitely spiritual answers laying ahead of me in this
work, but I'm pretty sure there are some good leads.

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with Jeff Belanger
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